St. Patrick Church in Seadrift will be holding its Annual Fall Fundraiser Sunday, October 22th at 11:00 a.m.

They will be serving turkey, dressing, gravy, yams, green beans, cranberries and roll for $9 a plate.

Raffle tickets with lots of nice prizes, bake sale, eggrolls and rice will be sold.

This will be my sixth year writing this column in the month of October and this year I figured I would try and give this month’s column it’s usually ‘spooky’ spin by talking about possible paranormal experiences I have had in my life and encourage all of you to share yours with me either via the Letters to the Dolphin section of this paper or via email.

Some of you might recall me mentioning a website I have written for and created entitled News From the Spirit World, which not only reports the weird and unusual side of things, but also tries to look at the paranormal with a clear, yet open, mind, as there are way more fakes and frauds out there than there is any real evidence, but there are some intriguing and well documented cases that do make you wonder if you’re in the right sort of mood.

More interesting is that almost everyone has some strange event that occurred to them or perhaps to someone they know or a family member, and sometimes like the above, most can be explained away but there are some that make you stop and imagine if there is more to the universe that what we can see in front of us every day.
On a previous occasion in this column I have told you about my early visits to the infamous Bachelor’s Grove Cemetery in Illinois, where the whole place seemed to have a different feeling to it while I was just above it’s small pond up on the road one night, and the weird effect it had on me stayed with me for a couple hours after I left, like I was on a drug of some kind and I was only a kid at the time really and stone sober.

The second would be just after returning to Illinois the first time after living in El Paso while still in high school. A woman had come back with us and was staying in the home where I had found my grandmother dead in her bedroom when I was about eight years old.

She said an older woman with a shock of very curly hair had come to her in the night and asked her what she was doing in her house. I was skeptical, but she kept saying it for a few weeks and then it clicked. She was staying in the same room my grandmother had died in and it was indeed for decades, her house.

Grabbing some family photos, I found a good close up of my grandmother and showed her the picture. She said it was the same older woman who had told her to leave the house, a classic ghost story sort of tale that occurred in my real day to day life.

Do any of you have any spooky tales to share from you or your family? Let us know or you can email me at: thomasspychalski@hotmail.com

Port O’ Connor Improvement District will be changing to the new AVR billing system this month, so please keep an eye out for your bill, as it will look different than the bills you are used to receiving.

Please note to receive an alert in regard to POCID activities, please sign up at our website pocid.org. It only takes a few minutes and then you will receive alerts in regard to water, sewer, storm events, outages, etc. Please sign up.. all it takes is an email address.

Call our office at 361-983-2652 for any questions
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The Next time for the Roll Off will be December 2, 2017.

All residents of Port O’Connor on the Air Vac System please take time to look around your yard for possible infiltration or inflow into the sewer system. Such as clean out caps off, your candy cane or vent is loose allowing rain water to enter into the system. Finding these problems will help in reducing unwanted water into our sewer system.

Thank you
POCID

Karie Skalak, Nancy Pomykal, Lynn Luster, Kacie Skalak
“Proud to be Port O’Connor Women”

Girls need! They need family, they need purposeful work, they need loving husbands or boyfriends, they need ..I don’t know… they need shoes. I would not have thought it, but I know it is true. Girls need…girlfriends. They need women in their lives, in their homes, sometimes in their face. They need girlfriends who are older, girlfriends who are younger and girlfriends about their age. I am a non-girly girl. I don’t like to shop, think bows are something you shoot, and my favorite shoes do not have heels.

Even so, I recently attended the first celebration of Port O’Connor Women. The Facebook fellowship of the ‘Proud to be a Port O’Connor Woman’ group had never met except online. It started when many of us texted and messaged during Hurricane Harvey and then shared information and resources to help during recovery. Some members decided we needed to meet in person. A party was planned and it grew to have momentum of its own. Women came from near and far to be a part of this celebration. They came from all walks of life and different age groups, united only by their love for our small town. They brought fantastic food, delightful door prizes and infectious excitement to an evening planned just for the simple enjoyment of being together. It was a special event unlike any other. There were pampered and manicured beauties and natural and lovely country girls; homemakers and career women, moms and moms yet to be, daughters and grandmas all together sharing in an experience unique unto women.

There are lots of reasons girls need girlfriends, but here are a few that I was reminded of this weekend as POC Women celebrated:

Girlfriends give us perspective. They hold a mirror up to the shared trials and triumphs of women everywhere and help us to see and believe that we are not alone, we are not atypical or out of the ordinary. Women before us, women in our own group and women yet to be our age have struggled and celebrated many of the same moments and minutiae that we are experiencing.

Girlfriends also give us purpose. They provide living examples of God’s amazing grace, His divine power, His healing and His mercy in a world that can just be a challenge to be a part of daily.

Girlfriends also give us playfulness. With our girlfriends, we do things we would never do alone, or even with our family. With our girlfriends we laugh harder, play longer, stretch further to do and accomplish something new or just new-fangled than we would ever do alone. With girlfriends, we share our deepest dreams and heartfelt hurts and laugh until we cry. With girlfriends, we try out our latest ideas and experiment with our craziest imaginings and cry until we laugh. With girlfriends, we play like little girls.

Girlfriends give us preparation and planning. Older girlfriends give us a familiar framework for our future hopes and dreams and give truthfulness to our wonderings about what is to come with those undefined tomorrows.

Agemate girlfriends give us new ideas and fresh points of view on our current window on life. No one laughs as hard with you or cries as easily with you over your current situation and stressor as the girlfriends who are facing the same.

Younger girlfriends give us grateful hearts and precious moments. Watching young moms or struggling singles we think ‘you really are gonna miss this someday.’ Girlfriends on the brink of moments we have passed make us stop and be grateful for those precious gems.

And girlfriends give us peace. Girlfriends get together and share and grow, they commiserate and celebrate, they hold up, hold hands, hold back, hold in, hold on, hold out hope and hold together. Somehow, they leave differences and disagreements behind and as friends offer each other a safe place to land whether it’s a crash landing or a floating fly in.

Many times, girlfriends share heavy hearts and big burdens, many times girlfriends share languorous laughter and lighthearted blather. But, girlfriends share generously. Being girls, having girlfriends really matters. I am thankful for mine!

And I am so proud to be part of the celebration of the Women of Port O’Connor. Thanks to each of those precious girlfriends who shared in our celebration!