What’s Up?

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Posted by Joyce Rhyne on 16 Feb 17 - 0 Comments

AA meets each Saturday night at 7 p.m. at First Baptist Church in Port O’Connor.

Seadrift Chamber of Commerce meets the third Thursday of each month, 6:00 p.m. at First National Bank meeting room, Seadrift

Commissioner’s Court meets the 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month at 10 a.m., 1st Floor of the Court House, Port Lavaca.

Crossroads Astronomy Club meets at 7:00 p.m., third Mondays, at U of H, Victoria, Room 223 info: wes81461@yahoo.com 935-2016

Calhoun County Quilt Guild meets the first Wednesday of each month at 9:30 a.m. at the Fairgrounds Exhibit Building.

Calhoun County Democratic Club meets the last Thursday of the month

CASA (Christians Against Substance Abuse) meets each Thursday from 7-8 p.m. Call 361-652-7451 for meeting place.

VFW Post 4403 meets first Tuesday of each month. 552-3886
Open Mon-Friday; Closed Weekends R. Guitierrez 210-872-1198

Sat., Feb. 18 Abandoned Crab Trap Removal POC TPWD Dock & Charlie’s Bait Camp

Thurs., Feb. 23 Bird Boggy 8:30-10:00 am Boggy Bayou Nature Park

Tues., Feb. 28 Shrove Pancake Supper 6:00 pm Seadrift United Methodist Church

Mon., March 13 POC Chamber of Commerce 6:30 pm Port O’Connor Community Center

Thurs., March 16 Family Movie Night 6:30 pm POC Community Center Pavilion

Sat., March 18 Benefit for Paige Satterfield 11:00-3:00 King Fisher Beach/Front Beach, Port O’Connor

LOVE by Erny McDonough

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Posted by Joyce Rhyne on 16 Feb 17 - 0 Comments

Many have attempted to approach this subject and have failed because “love” is truly an intangible! I have several “love” books in my personal library and none of them adequately define “love” as my dad did for me. In my Creative Writing Course in college, my assignment was to define love. Dad and Mom had been married for at least 25 years at that time (Mom left Dad three days before their 62nd Anniversary – she moved to Heaven!), therefore, I felt that he could help. “Love is the tinkling sensation of the heart that can’t be scratched,” was his definition. It has been decades since I wrote this definition, and I still believe it is the most accurate one I have found!

However, today I want to talk about “Illusions of Love” that hinder a true loving relationship. Often what seems like love is merely an illusion of love. Illusions of love are created by the ego, which is interested only in getting its own selfish needs met.

Illusions of love take many different forms. For example, when both people’s selfish needs are met in a relationship, the ego feels as if it is on top of the world. This is called the “honeymoon period” of a relationship. It is based totally on “romantic love” or “Valentine’s Day love”. This illusion lasts only as long as both people’s needs are being met, and when either feels that his or her needs are not met, one or both “lovers” become frustrated, and this frustration often quickly turns into anger.

What once looked like love just a few days ago has no become a love/hate relationship. Whether we use words or not, we send to each other a message that “I will love you only so long as you give me what I want”. This is the basis of the illusion we call “conditional love”.

The ego knows fear, but it neither understands nor is able to experience love. The ego’s form of love is always conditional and is always an illusion. It has only one favorite theme: “I will love you if…” The emphasis is on “if”!

Through our egos, we often put out millions of “ifs,” or conditions for our “love”. As parents, we may send the message to our children that “I will love you if you get good grades at school, but I will withdraw my love if you bring home bad grades.”

Some parents, under the guise of love, say to their child as they start to beat him, “This is going to hurt me more than it hurts you. I am only hitting you for your own good, only because I love you.” In this way, parents teach fear rather than love and compassion. Much of the violence that is seem in adults come from those who suffered physical abuse when they were children. You know I am totally in favor of spankings because it says to the child (who is learning on the basis of “reward and punishment”) I truly love you, but abusive behavior must never be tolerated inside or outside the home, by parents or siblings!

Conditional love in families may be seen when a wife sends this message to her husband, “I will love you only if you start spending more time with me and the family.” Or conditional love finds its message when the husband says, “I will love you if you have sex with me tonight, and I will reject you if you don’t!”

The ego is ambivalent about love and does not see love as a way of sharing feelings of endearment, tenderness, caring, and gentleness toward our beloved. Love is often traded or bargained as a tool for controlling and manipulating another person to serve its own selfish needs. Even in marriage, love is used as a token to trade for financial security. That is often the underlying reason given for a lover to stay in an abusive situation.

When it comes to love, the ego believes that we always suffer from great scarcity. Relationships simply never work when they are based on this illusion. The ego’s image is that we have a “gas tank” for love, and its gauge is always hovering around empty, causing us to be constantly demanding a refill.

The ego does not want us to love ourselves. It would have us seek others to love us. It is much more interested in getting love than giving it. It frequently guides us into relationships when we have the illusion of getting something from the other person that is missing in ourselves. These are illusions of love based on a bargain or trade, such as, “I will be the strong one and make all the decisions if you promise never to criticize me or reject me.”

Conditional love is fueled by ego, but unconditional love does not mean supporting another person’s insanity or condoning hurtful behavior. It means a willingness to see past the body and its behavior and to choose to see the essence of love that is the spiritual being of that person. Unconditional love, however, does not mean that you simply put up with anothers behavior no matter what! People with healthy self-esteem, who love unconditionally, do not stay in abusive situations. The true essence of love is experienced not with illusions of love based on the drive to “get you some,” nor on illusions of love based on punishment of any kind. Unconditional love refers to the “content” of our love rather than the “form”. It means accepting the love of our spiritual self and choosing to look beyond the body and personality-self of the other person to see the spiritual essence within them.

Remember the Scriptural essence of love. “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres. Love never fails.”

Let us develop a greater, deeper, and stronger love than simple “Valentine Love!”

“The Way I See It” is an attempt by the columnist to enlighten readers on a subject as he views it, and does not necessarily reflect the views of this publication.

On Trump’s “Muslim Ban”

President Trump had promised in his campaign to stop the influx of radical Muslim Jihadists posing as “refugees” and coming here on temporary “Visas”, and he actually did it. Trump actually trying to do what he promised has infuriated Liberals, especially Liberal Activist Judges. But it is the prime responsibility of any Govt to protect the National Security, borders, and its Citizens from criminals and invaders.

Trump issued a ban on “Refugees” from Syria and a Temporary Ban on visas from Iran, Iraq, Libya, Somalia, Sudan, Syria and Yemen on 1/27, until there is a method of properly “vetting” people from those countries.. Early on Jan 28, Judge Allison D. Burroughs and Magistrate Judge Judith G. Dein issued a Temporary Restraining Order (TRO) at the request of the American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU) to halt the Ban. That TRO only covered those coming into Boston. The Immigration authorities continued to seriously question people from the named countries, but most were released. US Citizens are the only ones with a “Right” to enter the country, but the Immigration authorities extend it to those having Permanent Residence Status. On Monday 1/30, U.S. District Judge Nathan Gorton denied extending the TRO, after reviewing the law. “Visas” are a temporary permission for foreigners traveling under a Passport to enter the country for a stated purpose and usually for a stated period of time and can be denied or cancelled for any reason. No foreigner has a “legal property right” to a “Visa”.

In Seattle, Washington, Judge James L. Robart issued a Temporary Restraining Order (TRO) against Pres. Trump and the Immigration authorities on Feb. 3 at the request of lawyers for the States of Washington and Minnesota, calling it a Muslim Ban, a religious Ban, and “Un-Constitutional”. And he made his TRO Nationwide. He is wrong on many counts. It only bans people from 7 of over 50 Muslim countries, places that can’t or won’t track Jihads and terrorists. And is not specific to Muslims. It is well known that radical Islamofascist groups send terrorists to Western countries for attacks against innocent civilians; they actively call us “The Great Shaitan (Satan)”, and call for our destruction. THEY are actively at war with us, in the name of Islam, even though we are NOT at war with Islam. The Constitution gives Congress the powers to regulate immigration, and Congress by The Immigration and Naturalization Act of 1952 delegated the power to the President to restrict any immigration based on “country of origin”. (Public Law 414, Chapter 477)*. This has been used many times, including by liberal Democrat Presidents Jimmy Carter and Barack Hussein Obama against Muslim countries. These 7 problem countries were previously identified by the Obama Administration, but no action was taken. President Trump is well within his “authority”, and his responsibility; but the “Liberal activist Judge” is simply ignoring the law and lying about the facts.

There are also difficulties with points of Law and Procedure. Minnesota and Washington States in applying for a TRO claimed “they” will “suffer irreparable damage” if the TRO is not given. This simply is not true. It is difficult to imagine how the States will “suffer any damage” from the temporary ban, much less “irreparable”. This is just “Political Theater”, not a real case in Law. The States have no “Standing”, only those individually affected, and they have no case because they have no “Right” to a “Visa”. The lawsuit should have been dismissed by the district court in whole or in part for lack of “Standing” and Minnesota is not even in the 9th Circuit. Second, the district court Judge did not give the required legal reasoning in its order to justify the TRO. And the Judge had no jurisdiction enjoining the executive order nationwide, only just in the two states, if at all.

Furthermore, he chose to completely ignore Title 8, Chapter 12, US Code 1182 (f) :

(f) Suspension of entry or imposition of restrictions by President

Whenever the President finds that the entry of any aliens or of any class of aliens into the United States would be detrimental to the interests of the United States, he may by proclamation, and for such period as he shall deem necessary, suspend the entry of all aliens or any class of aliens as immigrants or nonimmigrants, or impose on the entry of aliens any restrictions he may deem to be appropriate. Whenever the Attorney General finds that a commercial airline has failed to comply with regulations of the Attorney General relating to requirements of airlines for the detection of fraudulent documents used by passengers traveling to the United States (including the training of personnel in such detection), the Attorney General may suspend the entry of some or all aliens transported to the United States by such airline.

This is the Federal law from 1952 that gives President Trump the authority and the Responsibility to issue his ban.
Govt lawyers went to the Ninth US Court of Appeals for a “stay” on the TRO on those grounds and National Security, but after Oral Arguments via telephone on 2/8 the Court upheld Judge Robarts TRO on 2/10.
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Opinion: I have long suspected that some Liberal “Judges” are far more interested in their AGENDA than in their Oath to the Constitution and loyalty to the American People. On 2/10, I read an article by Ken Klukowski, senior legal editor for Breitbart News and a fellow with the American Civil Rights Union. He quoted the Supreme Court:

“The procedural protections provided by the Fifth Amendment’s Due Process Clause are not limited to citizens. Rather, they apply to all persons within the United States, including aliens, regardless of whether their presence here is lawful, unlawful, temporary, or permanent.”

Reading this explains a lot. “Their interpretation” is that foreigners, even illegals, have rights equal to Citizens, and even superior to the National Security concerns of the Trump Administration and the Citizens that elected him. (?!?) The Courts have usurped powers far beyond their jurisdictions. Even to overturn laws by Congress, Mandated by the Constitution; and the authority of the President and Commander-in-Chief to enforce the Laws as written and to defend our nation. Woe is us, if they can get away with that!

Congress needs to immediately pass a law that clearly states that Constitutional guarantees ONLY apply to CITIZENS, and the extension of these rights to any Non-citizens are only to be determined by Immigration Law issued by Congress and signed by the President; as per US Constitution, Article I, section 8, Paragraph 1 & 4.

“The Congress shall have Power To……provide for the common Defense and general Welfare of the United States;”

“To establish an uniform Rule of Naturalization,” (and immigration)

The very idea that the Courts can make the decision that Constitutional Rights “apply to all persons within the United States, including aliens, regardless of whether their presence here is lawful, unlawful, temporary, or permanent.” even to the detriment of the safety of our Citizens and National Security is ludicrous! And frightening! Wrong to the point of Criminal Malfeasance! But a perfect example of the Current Political Correctness of “Liberal Logic”.

Fish Out of Water by Thomas Spychalski…

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Posted by Joyce Rhyne on 16 Feb 17 - 0 Comments

A little over five years ago, I began writing for this newspaper as both a columnist and a correspondent in Port Lavaca.

In that time, I have gotten a feel and admiration for life on the Texas coast, as well as yet experiencing the diverse landscapes that exist in the United States.

Subject matter is of course the meat of any form of writing and in half a decade we have talked about everything from weather safety to gun control, mused on both the changing of the season and everyday life, celebrated our national holidays and mourned some losses as well.

In that same time frame the life of the person who had to produce the words on the topics above also had diversity, in the form that hits all of us at some time or another if we were blessed enough to survive our childhood and teen years and sail the waters of later life.

Connecting the two experiences is not difficult, because Fish Out of Water allowed those experiences to be shared outward into the world, and hopefully the intended target of those words, you the reader, got something of value from my thoughts.

You might think that writing about this might seem like “easy copy,” or even worse a little bit self celebratory or egocentric, but it is actually quite hard to put into perspective.

Five years is quite a long time to be doing one thing, especially in today’s world, which has moved on as far as what constitutes being at one job or task for an extended period.

So it’s only natural to take a quick look back (not too much though, tomorrow is another day and we want eyes front), take stock of what has changed, what has remained the same and what in that pile affects the road ahead.

Doubly so for this column and my work with Dolphin Talk, because it has allowed me to keep my writing sharp and my eyes open a bit more to the world.

The other reason to celebrate this kind of anniversary is to thank those who made it possible, from Joyce here at Dolphin Talk to each one of you who might have read the words in this space over the past five years.

Without you this is nothing because without the reader the writer on any level is a bit empty, a letter with no address, a play with no audience.

Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to share my views and thoughts with you every month, and my plan is to continue to do so for as long as you allow me to do so.

Seadrift Volunteer Fire Department Response Report

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Posted by Joyce Rhyne on 16 Feb 17 - 0 Comments

Jan. 1: Seadrift VFD and Port Lavaca FD responded to Bay Ave. in Seadrift for a one-vehicle accident at the Bayfront Park.

Jan. 3: Port O’Connor VFD responded to Hwy 185 & Hwy 1289 for a grass fire; Port Lavaca FD & Seadrift VFD also responded but was cancelled while en-route.

Jan. 3: Seadrift VFD responded to Cemetery Road for a Natural Gas Leak.

Jan. 5: Seadrift VFD responded to East Dallas Ave in Seadrift for a Natural Gas Leak.

Jan. 5: Port O’Connor VFD and Port Lavaca FD responded to Hwy 185 & Hwy 1289 for a grass fire; Seadrift VFD also responded but was cancelled while en-route.

Jan. 7: Seadrift VFD and Port Lavaca FD responded to East Dallas Ave. in Seadrift for a Golf Cart on fire; Port Lavaca FD also responded.

Jan. 8: Seadrift VFD and Port Lavaca FD responded to the Old Seadrift Hwy for a grass fire; fire turned out to be a controlled burn.

Jan. 8: Seadrift VFD and Port Lavaca FD responded to the Old Seadrift Hwy for a grass fire.

Jan. 15: Seadrift VFD and Port Lavaca FD responded to Hubbard Ranch Lane for a controlled burn that got out of control.

Jan. 25: Seadrift VFD responded to assist Port Lavaca FD and Port O’Connor VFD with multiple grass fires off of Hwy 1289; Magnolia Beach VFD and Six Mile Community VFD also responded.

Jan. 25: Seadrift VFD and Port O’Connor VFD responded to Lee Road for a controlled burn that got out of control; Port Lavaca FD and Six Mile Community VFD also responded.

Jan. 26: Seadrift VFD and Port Lavaca FD responded to Louie Walker Road for a grass fire that turned out to be on an island.

Jan. 28: Port O’Connor VFD responded to Chardonnay Way for a Fire Alarm; Port Lavaca FD and Seadrift VFD also responded but was cancelled while en-route.

Jan. 29: Port O’Connor VFD responded to LaSalle Ranch Road for a Grass Fire; Port Lavaca FD and Seadrift VFD also responded.

Jan. 30: Seadrift VFD and Port Lavaca FD responded to Shannon Lane for a controlled burn that got out of control; Port O’Connor VFD, Magnolia Beach VFD, and Six Mile Community VFD also responded.

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